Monday, April 27, 2020

May, 2020 news
New blog site open at
I am starting this new website to share more Tufts family stories on another blog platform.
I will continue to add stories here and also still respond to messages and comments as well as add to the bigger family listings as I get information.

Wednesday, February 5, 2020

Old photographs

I am working on a full story about old pictures and records but this is a priority as someone is looking to return an old photograph to any descendants of the subject. Please read through and help out if you can.

We are looking to return a family photograph to any descendants. The photo is of Dwight Tufts, born in 1851 probably in Massachusetts. His parents were Albert Smith Tufts and Elizabeth (Chase) Bartlett (Betsey, widow of Ebenezer Bartlett).

 Dwight Tufts circa 1875

Records of Dwight are difficult to decipher. We do know this family came from the family of Gershom Tufts who went to Dartmouth, Nova Scotia in 1760 and left a large legacy. The story of Gershom’s descendants are told in Chapter 4 of Nova Scotia Tufts families. Gershom was a fifth-generation descendant of Peter Tufts of Charlestown, Massachusetts, the Tufts immigrant ancestor. Some of Gershom’s descendants returned to America.  The subject of the photo’s grandfather Benjamin was the one who returned in his line. He was a soldier in the war of 1812 from Springfield, Massachusetts and had 10 children in Fishkill, NY and Hadley, MA.His male line:
Gershom Tufts
James B Tufts
Benjamin S Tufts
Albert S Tufts
Dwight Tufts 1851-?

Albert and his wife Betsey are listed as having only 1 child in the records I could find. He is listed as Dwight F Tufts at birth and in the first 2 census records. In his later marriage records he is recorded as Charles Dexter Tufts. I have yet to find the answer to that mystery. I did not see any records of children from Charles marriage so it may be unlikely there are any descendants. There would be cousins though. Dwight (or Charles) had 2 half-brothers; Albert D Tufts and Henry N Tufts. Albert S Tufts was also had 9 siblings so the Tufts family of Hamden and Hampshire counties in Massachusetts could enjoy this picture of their old uncle.

There is also a picture on ebay for sale right now (February 2020). It is three women of the Barri family, one named Tufts. ebay link
It would be nice to return these to some family members. It is possible there are none but there could be cousin, nieces and nephews. Please contact if you have any information on the descendants of these families.

Saturday, April 27, 2019

The horse sale of legend

For many years growing up we heard a tale of horses being sold at our family tree nursery in Exeter, New Hampshire. We never heard about horses being kept there or used there but their was a few old pieces of horse stuff in the barn. I was one of the youngest of the grandchildren so I never knew just how hard my grandfather worked to provide for his family of six children starting in 1921 with my father, who took over the business many folks from Exeter remember. Grandfather James A Tufts II bought the farm in 1923. He also sold Ball seeds throughout all of New England and sold cut flowers. he was active with the Grange and Farm Bureau and many other things.

 Today I found this ad establishing truth to the legend.

A look through my old photo files revealed a couple picture he must have taken from the house roof. We had one of those hatches which could be accessed from the attic, but he must have been holding on with one hand as the focus is off in these pictures he took.
 looking over High Street towards the "bungalow"
Horses were still used on many farms and I have these pictures of plowing the nursery fields by horse and primitive tractors.
 This is looking towards Hampton Road where Holland Drive now goes to Portsmouth Avenue.

I believe this is the house on the corner of Rte 88 where there are newer homes now.

Friday, January 4, 2019

(photo from Fund facebook page)
The Craig Tufts Educational Scholarship Fund was established in memory of Craig Tufts, Chief Naturalist of the National Wildlife Federation. Each year the fund grants an award to a youth, aged 8-18, to attend a week-long summer outdoor educational adventure camp at Family Nature Summits. The fund provides travel, room and board, plus program fees for the award winner and an accompanying parent or guardian.

Information for the next Application is available here.  For more information, please subscribe to the Family Nature Summits Newsletter or like us on facebook.

Saturday, October 13, 2018

My 2018 search for Henry Tufts’ grave in Limington Maine

or A narrative of the travels and sufferings of genealogist Tom Tufts to find dead people no longer residing at Lemington in the district of Maine as compiled by himself.

 I’m just poking some fun at Henry Tufts and the long title to his tell-all book of 1807. Finding Henry’s grave seems as hard as finding the truth in his book. My Henry Tufts story

It was a frustrating search to locate the old graves in the cemeteries in Limington. The more modern Tufts families are buried there in Elmwood cemetery and Highland cemetery and some are recorded on the findagrave website. Others are listed with the local library and Historical society.

These graves were immediately to the right when we pulled in the entrance to the cemetery. How often does that happen? I usually spend hours wandering around looking for stones. These need just a little straightening of the foundations and minor cleaning.

Wallace E Tufts. Veteran of World War I, is remembered with two stones.

There is an old cemetery out behind Simeon Tufts’s old home on Tufts Lane off Doles Ridge Road presumably where the Tuftses established themselves after leaving Lee, New Hampshire. The cemetery is overgrown and only a few stones are visible. Those of Alice B. (1863), Herbert J.  (1880), Charles A. (1878), and James Tufts (1841) are upright and in good shape. There are two barely legible worn-down stones of Polly Tufts and possibly George Miller. It is likely that Henry Tufts and his wife Lydia were buried there, although I have found no record of their burial. They are recorded as living there in the 1820 and 1830 census. Their death dates could match either of these two cemeteries. The cemetery at the old Tufts home has no definite border and part of it is sunken and slopes toward a wet area. It would require extensive archaeological work to prove anyone else is buried there. Some stones might be discovered but would most likely not have legible inscriptions. Henry’s father’s cemetery in Lee, New Hampshire is in similar condition. Ground penetrating radar might prove there were burials there but would not provide proof that any grave might be that of  Henry Tufts. That is fine with me. We wouldn’t want the land owners to be bothered by any Jim Morrison-like grave groupies.
Tufts plot

In much worse shape than the Tufts cemetery was one we found further down the Doles Ridge Road. I was looking for one described in early records as “To the right of Randall Cushing’s place going towards Edgecomb’s Bridge.” The record also has penciled in “with #94 Doles Ridge Rd.” and two Tufts were supposedly buried there (Mary and Simeon listed below). (The #94 is a reference to the previous cemetery on the list not the cemetery’s street number address.) 

 I looked along the road down the hill from the Tufts house and my copilot spotted an old graveyard in a horse paddock on Doles Ridge Road and sure enough there are Goves listed in #94. Another record from the Limington Historical Society contact also noted in an old cemetery listing as “near together” which means that I may have been in it or that it extends beyond the horse pasture into the next house lot.

The owner was nice enough to show me the cemetery in the paddock and said he had never looked at it himself. I was horrified. The horses were ruining it. They left manure and knocked over stones for sure, there was only one left standing. If you are a descendant of Eddie Dole (1879) or Paulina Gove, or these Tufts, it would be good to approach them and see if at least they can fence it off. After a little research it seems there is a Revolutionary soldier John Gove buried there. I do recall the resident saying there was a soldier there. Maybe that will help get this place preserved. Please forward any information on local Veterans groups as they may help as well.

Toppled stones of Eunice,  Eddie A. Dole, and Patriot John Gove.

Throughout this country many old family cemeteries lie in disrepair in the woods or in people’s yards and fields. I think the disrepair is a shame but understand the magnitude of finding and fixing them all. I wish I could just fix them all up myself but don’t have the time. Henry Tufts senior’s cemetery in Lee is unkept. I have also written about the East cemetery in Belfast, Maine which probably holds some of the first settlers of Belfast and is in bad shape. I guess it will fall to local volunteers or land owners who care enough to find the time. Join or help the Maine Old Cemetery Association if you can. From what I see they do wonderful work. There is an old Brackett cemetery on Doles Ridge Road in the other direction and it looks like they keep it up well.